Nothin interesting to say anyway....

What makes people fall in love with each other? The concept of relationship is still a big mystery to me... I don't know... how can u grow to trust a stranger like u would ur family? The people here are so open to just date strangers and pick them up on chance meetings... It seems a little superficial to me but then who am I to say? Maybe I'm just not adventurous enough or maybe i'm too idealistic... that I think that it's impossible to find someone who can be ur companion on the bus...

And how do u know if that person is not a psycho? U only know the person for what, 10 minutes? How can u know what the person is like, what he/she likes and what he/she doesn't like... How can u give ur number to an (almost) total stranger?

If a person asks u out without any knowledge about u, doesn't that make the person superficial? Surely he or she is more interested in what u look like, or maybe just wants to have some sex some day this week?

Call me skeptical but even at work, people date each other because they like the way the other person look... but looks will fade, when that happens, will they fall in love with what's left of the person? Doesn't personality matter at all? Don't they want someone to share their happy moments and their sadness they go through in their day? So what has looks got to do with anything?

Falling in love means risking yourself, your emotions, your body and your energy... how do people give themselves so freely, so easily to a random person? Doesn't it hurt when u realise that it was given to the wrong person?

I guess i'm idealistic because I believe that there should be more than just phyiscal attraction so I still refuse to put on make-up, wear heels and conform to the male expectations of how a woman should look... people don't realise how hard it is to not conform and then watch as everyone else find someone to love.... but i'll hold out a little longer... perhaps someone can like me for my personality, perhaps not... we shall see...