America- land of opportunity?
Human Rights, Employee rights, product rights, animal rights, civil lawsuits, protests, strikes,
The poor and the homeless, high crime rates, no late nights...
Ignorance and intolerance, fear...
They exist everywher.. I know... but I seem to find a concentrate of it here... of cos, there's always something gd here too... but USA is not without weaknesses... There's segregation... among races, among the rich and poor, among social classes...
I find it hard sometimes to adjust because Singapore is such a safe place... I dun always haf to b on my guard... yea there are criminals in Singapore just the same but I didn't grow up here... so there's still alot I dunno about... it's the things I don't know that scares me most... I feel i
I hope I don't live here in fear... it's wat causes the segregation in the first place...
I guess I do haf to step out of my comfort zone and learn more... it's not easy though... sometimes I really just wanna be back in Singapore- warm, comfortable and confident of wher I am and what I am doing...
There's a lot to look forward to here... the people here in general tend to be friendlier and more trusting... someone managed to get a girl's number on the bus... he actually managed to pick up a girl on the bus in 15 mins... an eye-opener for me... while he probably won't get far with someone lik me who's less trusting... but at the same time I won't b able to experience as much bcos we are not as open to new experiences or people as the locals here would...
Although I haf a brush of a guy who seem to be a racist... he's an usher working at the theatre... cos he only seem to order/shout at the Asians... and he's not even the management- just a normal staff like me... but calling someone here a racist is a taboo... u can't anyhow make this kind of accusations...
but u aso haf to be careful if u r a racist here in America... civil lawsuits are RAMPANT... u can get a lawsuit anytime- so everyone has to b careful what they say or do...
It's a bit disturbing for me to experience being discriminated against bcos of my skin colour... but it's bcos i'm now a minority here... no longer the chinese majority in singapore... so i guess i juz haf to learn to live with it...
It's things like these that make me miss Singapore...